Middle school education: Wiring student brains for lifelong success
When educators talk about the most crucial time for development, many often focus on early childhood or the final push of high school. But for Adam Lamoureux, Principal at Van Meter High School and Middle School in Iowa, the years in between are the richest.
Lamoureux believes the middle school grades are the most exciting, critical, and rewarding time in education.
“Personally, middle school is my favorite,” Lamoureux said. “The impact that you can have on their development as individuals and helping them navigate life as a middle schooler is so rewarding.”
In a stage where students are still figuring out who they are, Lamoureux loves that educators can have such a positive and lasting influence on their students.
“Middle school is among the most crucial years,” he said. “You can have such a positive impact on the trajectory that they might take in life.”
“You can have such a positive impact on the trajectory that they might take in life.”
Holly Wright, a Whole Student Development Lead at Gradient Learning, said there’s more that goes into middle school than simply getting students ready for high school. Wright said middle school is the pivotal window when teaching durable life skills alongside academics is not a luxury, but a developmental necessity.
“Whole-student education isn’t ‘extra,’” Wright said. “It is directly tied to building the curiosity, purpose, resilience, self-direction, and agency young people need for success in school and beyond.”
Wiring the brain for life
To understand why holistic education is non-negotiable, Wright said we have to look inside the adolescent brain. The science is clear: we’re dealing with a brain that is highly sensitive and literally under construction.
Wright, a former middle school principal, notes that this stage is a period of intense neurodevelopment. She explains that the 12-to-15 age bracket is essentially a time for "throwing metaphorical blocks across the room" to see what happens, much like a toddler exploring boundaries. The brain is ready to build, which Wright explains in the following ways:
The developing control tower: The prefrontal cortex, which governs executive functions like planning, decision-making, and self-control, is still maturing well into the mid-20s. This makes adolescence the prime time to intentionally practice and build the lifelong habits of self-direction and agency.
Emotion and learning are inseparable: A student’s emotional state is a prerequisite for academic success. The brain’s emotion centers and memory centers are deeply interconnected. When students feel a sense of belonging and purpose, their brains are chemically primed to encode learning more effectively.
Motivation is chemical: The teenage brain's dopamine systems are highly responsive to novelty, curiosity, and meaning. Holistic learning practices tap into this natural wiring by connecting education to real-world impact, which fuels motivation.
"The neural pathways that have been developed to this point are shedding unnecessary cells in order to make room for more of those neural pathways,” Wright said. “So we need them to build it right.”
The productive struggle
Wright said when teachers and parents prevent a middle school student from struggling, they are shutting down a proverbial highway the brain needs to build. That’s why with her own three children, she champions the importance of a productive struggle.
"The easy thing to do is just solve the problem or fix the situation for them,” she said. “But when you do that, you're actually just shutting down a highway that can be built inside of their brain.”
This concept is evident in real-life lessons:
Resilience and self-direction: When a middle school student forgets his cleats to a baseball game, the embarrassment and consequence create a neural pathway. "That is the literal manifestation of seeing it get built in his brain,” Wright said. “When he's 19, he’s going to be sure he’s not forgetting his cleats when playing in a big game.” The small failure in middle school prevents a larger one later.
Curiosity and persistence: If we fail to encourage curiosity now, the window of opportunity closes. Wright said that if an adult is 25 and hasn't built those pathways in their brain, their dopamine receptors won't fire for learning. "It's too late,” she said.
Wright said these skills are the bridge to independence. By normalizing exploration, promoting ownership, and teaching healthy coping strategies, we build students who are adaptable, motivated, and capable of regulating their emotions while taking on life's challenges.
Measuring success
For parents and educators, Wright said it’s important to measure the success of a middle school student by looking beyond test scores to capture a full picture of development:
Behavioral indicators: Tracking persistence in challenging tasks, willingness to accept and act on feedback, and the ability to self-advocate.
Engagement data: Analyzing attendance, participation, and curiosity-driven questions.
Student voice and reflection: Using journals and surveys to track growth in purpose, resilience, and agency.
“We’re wiring their brains for resilience, curiosity, and independence that will serve them in every area of life.”
Wright has a message to both school leaders and parents who are curious about the lasting impact of holistic learning for their students.
To School Leaders: “Investing in whole-student approaches is investing in long-term outcomes. The neuroscience is clear: belonging and purpose accelerate both academic learning and life skills.”
To Parents: “We’re not just preparing your kids to pass tests. We’re wiring their brains for resilience, curiosity, and independence that will serve them in every area of life.”
By embracing holistic education, Gradient Learning partner educators like Lamoureux in Iowa are guiding students through this middle school phase and preparing them to lead successful, self-directed lives. This is made possible through Gradient’s high-quality instructional materials, which seamlessly blend academics and durable life skills.
This article helps answer frequently asked questions such as:
Why is the middle school brain considered under construction?
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